~ for Mom, August 5, 1935 – July 16, 2025
husband notices a small group sitting on the ground,
in a tight circle, in a corner of lawn
when we pull up to the Vet’s office,
for Coco’s yearly vaccinations.
the clang & rattle of wheels on pavement
makes a loud, disturbing noise
as a young woman in scrubs pushes a small gurney
across the parking lot. ~ of course. it makes sense now.
a mournful family, saying their final goodbyes, sharing memories
of happier days, expressing, I’m sure, just how much
this canine loved one has meant to each of them and how much
they’ll miss his silly antics, that goofy grin, those sweet puppy eyes,
laughing about when Fido was one very naughty little boy, indeed.
and I am struck by a shared camaraderie. ~ my mother passed away
two days ago, & our own small group of family and friends, will soon
gather in a few days to offer up our own memories and affections,
shed our collective grief and commune as one body to celebrate her life.
we’ll share funny stories & zany anecdotes of one who’s meant so much
to us, each in our own time and in our own unique and loving ways.


I’m sorry to hear of your mother’s passing, Julie and that she didn’t quite make it to celebrate her 90th birthday.
Thank you, Sandy. I appreciate that.